Ladies and Gentleman ... it is possible! Quite difficult but POSSIBLE and I'm going to be talking from my personal experience here.
I met my husband a few years ago when I was still living in Mexico, so for a long time more than 1,300 miles kept us apart from each other.
Everything started with a very simple e-mail that led us to our happily ever after.
But even when our story has a happy ending, keeping a long distance relationship alive is not easy to do.
You are in a relationship but there are no hugs or kisses or evenings cuddling on the couch watching TV. You can't go out on a date like all your friends do. Weekends are long and normally boring and of course there is no physical contact. Honestly, it can be so frustrating!
Sometimes it can feel like you are dating a ghost! You might even wonder, "Is this even worth it?" .... If you do, stop for a moment, take a deep breath and think ... if you really like, care, or love this person, believe me it is totally worth it.
Here are some points that might help you to keep your long distance relationship alive and growing to find a happy ending.
1.- TRUST THE PERSON YOU ARE DATING
This might seem like an easy step to remember, but believe me I've heard so many stories of couples with trust issues and they never end well.
Trust is a fundamental thing, not only for long distance relationships but relationships in general.
You both have made the conscious decision to be together, to be with someone you like and care about and both people should respect the relationship equally to not just keep it alive but make it grow.
Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are many jerks out there (or mean girls) who shouldn't be trusted, but would you even be with someone like that in the first place?
Trust your partner, but of course keep your eyes open for any warning signs.
2.-COMMUNICATION
I learned this the hard way but it is true, nobody in the entire world can read your mind. It doesn't matter how many "signals" you think you are sending or how obvious you think you are being, if you don't say it with your own words, there is a 99% chance the other person won't figure it out by themselves.
Don't keep feelings inside. Whether good or bad, talk it out.
Let the other person know how you feel, communication is everything.
3.- ALWAYS BE HONEST AND BE RESPECTFUL
This one goes along with the other two I just wrote about. It is very important to be honest about your feelings and always respect your relationship and the person you are dating. Even though you guys are far away, you are in a relationship. To everyone else around you, you are "taken"; there should be no more flirting or dating other people. Remember you have agreed to be with someone you like, so respect it.
4.- TECHNOLOGY
It doesn't matter how busy your day might be, there is always time to write/read a short message.
Use e-mails and IMs to keep in touch during the day. It is very important to keep communicating as much as you can.
Have Skype/Face Time dates! You guys can have dinner at the same time and talk about your day through the web cam. Believe me, it is fun to do.
And of course, as we know, there is Facebook, whatsapp, twitter, and many more! Use these tools and it can help you feel more "together".
5.- REMEMBER IMPORTANT DATES
Dates are important and even when you are far from each other it is not an excuse to not celebrate events like anniversaries, birthdays, achievements, or anything else that matters to the two of you. Celebrate the important things, or even small things.
6.- ROMANCE, LITTLE DETAILS AND SURPRISES
Be romantic!! As romantic as your personality allows you to be, of course. Surprise the other person with a song, or a video, or a letter, a drawing, a scrapbook of your relationships; there are thousands of ideas on the internet! Show him/her how much you care about them.
Don't let distance get in the way of romance. Keep the romance alive. Sexy conversations aren't a sin.
Believe me, it is important. It all depends on how far in the relationship you guys are and how comfortable you guys are with each other.
I hope this advice can help you somehow. Long distance relationships are difficult but not impossible.
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